5 Ways to Unlock Erotic Intelligence
In many cases when people hear the word “erotic” they immediately think about sexuality. But when discussing erotic Intelligence, the word goes beyond the bedroom. Your erotic energy is the primal passionate creative intelligence you feel when doing things that bring you joy, tie into your passion, your purpose and help you feel like your true self.
In our daily lives, it’s sometimes difficult to remember how to focus on these aspects of ourselves. So how does one unlock your erotic intelligence?
Connect With Nature
If there’s one guaranteed way to refresh the soul, it’s taking some time outside. Hiking through nearby trails, kayaking, biking or spend time at the beach. Part of unlocking this part of you requires you to make time, prioritize being outdoors and simply being present and appreciating the everyday moments — so even chores like walking your dog around the neighborhood or taking in the scenery at the park while your kids play can help activate erotic energy. My absolute favorite place to shoot is outdoors against the trees or in the garden overlooking the pond using mother nature’s light source for “adventure boudoir,” sessions.
Find Your Passion
There are few things more exhilarating than when you discover your true calling. Knowing you have mastered a skill or are at the top of your game in your field unlocks a natural high and releases erotic energy. So take time to dig deep and decide what really calls to you…where are your gifts best utilized? Then take steps to fulfill that desire. Whether it’s a dance class, cooking class, virtual learning, or being part of a community. The things that excite you are not random, they’re tied to your purpose: pay attention to them.
Embrace your fantasies and desires
One of the most important ways to tap into erotic intelligence is by exploring your own body and desires. You can tap into their erotic intelligence by exploring fantasies and desires, whether through self-exploration, communication with your partner, or creative expression. This involves setting aside any feelings of shame or guilt and embracing your own unique desires and needs. Boudoir sessions empower you to embrace your erotic nature and tell a story that is typically hidden away.
Limit Stress in Your Life
If happiness and relaxation help support unlocking erotic intelligence, it goes without saying that stress and negativity would cause a “locking” in the erotic intelligence department. These stressors come from all areas of life—never-ending projects at work, negative self talk, never-ending chores at home, toxic friendships, unhealthy relationships and the drama that comes with that.
These stress-inducing aspects of our lives cause the flow of positivity to stop just as fast 5pm traffic every afternoon on the way home. The key is to limit or eliminate exposure to things that hinder the flow of positive energy.
Embrace Creativity & Curiosity
Curiosity is essential for unlocking erotic intelligence. What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but never took the time? Creative expression can be a powerful way to tap into your erotic intelligence. Whether it's through writing, painting, or dance— creative expression can help you connect with your deepest desires and emotions. By tapping into your creative side, you can explore new aspects of yourself and gain a deeper understanding of your own unique sense of self.
Overall, erotic intelligence involves prioritizing pleasure and joy in all aspects of life, not just in the sexual realm. This involves taking the time to engage in activities that bring you joy and pleasure, whether it's spending time with loved ones, exploring new hobbies, or simply taking time for self-care. By prioritizing pleasure, you can cultivate a deeper sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in all areas of life.